Nobody talks about the awkward pause mid-intimacy when you have NO idea what you're supposed to do next. Just me?

Okay real talk. There are moments in bed where things are going great and then suddenly your brain goes completely blank.

Nobody teaches you this stuff. You figure it out through a mix of trial, error, and mildly embarrassing moments you think about at 3am years later.

My doubt is if am I going too fast or too slow?

I genuinely cannot tell in the moment. I've asked. Partner said "it's fine." That told me nothing.

What's the one thing you've always been confused about in bed but never knew how to ask?