AITJ For thinking people on this sub have a tendency to ask for justification on feelings but using it to justify actions

There's a difference between feelings and actions.

It is important to allow ourselves to feel things. We cannot live our lives denying ourselves of feeling things just because someone else said it's not ok. If you feel a certain way, you feel it.

However, just because you feel a certain way does not mean you can act based on those feelings. They are mutually exclusive.

This sub is great and I love that it can be a support network for people to allow themselves to feel a certain way.

But maybe it's important to remember that just because feelings can be justified (ntj for feeling any particular way) does not automatically you are ntj for acting on those feelings.

AITJ for thinking this way?