I can’t read this girl

I’ve gone two dates with this girl and it’s pretty hard to read her over text and even in person. Over texting she seems pretty dry and uninterested. But somehow we still go on dates.

In real life, I feel like she’s just nervous or still shy. I mean it’s a little weird meeting someone from online. However, at the end of the second day, she initiate a hug to say goodbye. I didn’t feel like kissing her yet because we were in public and she was about to get an Uber and I thought that would be weird.

We’re going on a third date tonight. She’s coming over to my place to pregame and we’re going to go to this Live music event that’s late at night. I think it’s a big step because she’s coming over and we’re hanging out late at night on a Friday. Shows that she’s getting comfortable. Also, that’s kind of crazy to go out with me instead of hanging out with her friends are doing whatever else on a Friday night.

I know this is probably gonna be more of like as the vibes go kind of night. But I’m trying to understand if she’s trying to sleep over or if I should sleep over. She seems serious about a boyfriend based on what she said the last date. Not sure how I should end the night.

We’ll probably get drunk and I’m not sure how I should invite her over. I don’t wanna be pushy, but I don’t want her to think I’m only looking this for sex.

Just looking for advice just talking out with people.