37[NB4F] Alt sapphic enby looking for my femme nerdy counterpart
I spent most of my life thinking I was a cis man. In recent years, I uncovered my femme self, a face I present with increasing confidence every day. The road here has been long, littered with potholes and police checkpoints—which, depending on the state, is either a metaphor for coercive heteronormativity or actual jail time.
About me: non-binary, androgynous, but identifying as femme when possible. I'm 5'5" and fit, medium-length brown hair and a porcelain complexion. I write and sing and have a lot of silly little hobbies. You can consider me an extrovert when needed and otherwise ready to ball up in the fetal position under a block of cheese.
Looking for: The strongest connections, for me, don't start romantically; two people getting to know each other, a patient chemistry, seeds the type of kinship that cannot be put down. I get along best with fellow dorks and those with passions they love to express. Someone artsy, sporty, girly (or the like), if there's something you absolutely love and fixate on, I'd love to hear about it. I am into fitness and drawn to those who are similarly active.
Feel free to shoot me a DM if any of that catches your attention!
Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:23 PM UTC · locked