How do I (f28) ask my husband (m27) about what I found on his TV?

My husband and I got married literally two days ago.

One of the boundaries I set early early in the relationship was that I don’t want porn or any related material to be involved in my relationship or our lives, to which he agreed. I have pretty significant past trauma related to porn, and he knows that. He is a very perfect match for me and has never disrespected me.

We moved into a new apartment a little bit ago, and we put his TV in our living room. I was cleaning the place today, and noticed his TV has an “internet” option, which I thought was kind of insane and cool. So, I clicked on it. To my complete surprise, the “most visited” tab was the home page, and it was filled with OF, porn, etc.

I don’t have a way of seeing the dates on the searches, but I am uncomfortable. I don’t know how, or if I even should, bring this up. I want to say something along the lines of “hey, I saw something on your TV and I would really appreciate if you could clear all of that history”.

It’s not even what I saw that is upsetting me, it’s the potential that the man I committed my life to 2 days ago could potentially be crossing a clear boundary I set in place.

Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:23 PM UTC

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