Finding out a friend who is a male (who was once a client) is being gross behind wife’s back..I don’t want to be responsible for breaking them up.

I’ve become friends with this man who was working on my house fi a few projects and over the last year or so we’ve become friends. Not the kind that physically hangs out (that would be weird he’s married) but we’ll send funny memes on IG sometimes.

Anyway I noticed 60% of people he follows are OF models. I also realized he wants to message me on Snapchat (I don’t have an account). I just get this feeling his wife would not be happy about any of this. And I have a feeling he’s got some wild pics in Snapchat.

I’ve always considered myself a “girls girl” but now that I have this in front of me I’m not sure I should say anything. I don’t know her. And it would just cause a trust rift between them and I don’t want to be responsible for that!!

I’ve thought about sending an anonymous DM but I’m scared. What do you all think?

Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:23 PM UTC

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