28 [F4M] #South Africa, jhb - irl long term play partner or relationship

i’m a full figured black woman looking for a long term play partner. i’d like it to develop into a relationship i’m looking for a dom who is a sadist or primal. age range 30-55.

i’m looking for a sadist who isn’t afraid to push me to my limits while understanding we’re playing with pain and need to remain safe.

my kinks are wax, fire, watersports, impact play(with various instruments).i’d like to try rope too. F: lipschitz. :)