61 [M4F] #UK,England,Midlands - older seeks dates and more
Older man seeks companion to go on dates and then hopefully build up to a more serious relationship. I'd prefer to date with a significant age difference (for reasons I'm happy to talk about privately).
I used to do first dates at theatres and good restaurants, but got stood up a little too often, so I guess that will have to wait till dates after the first one! I'm really looking for someone who will meet up often or ideally cohabit with me. I'm flexible on how the relationship works so you might like this if you're a student wanting a weekend escape, if you want somewhere to live working remotely, want to move out from your family, or you want to be a homemaker/stay at home parent. I don't expect anyone staying or living with me to contribute to bills.
Birth control is entirely up to you, and whilst I emphasise this is optional, I will be very pleased if sex results in pregnancy.
About me:
- White, 5'11", blue eyes, grey/brown hair
- Like most forms of music, musicals, theatre, cinema
- Work mostly from home as software developer.
- Don't take politics seriously but probably hovering around Liberal Democrat area. Its fine to have different views.
- Live alone (with cat) in 5 bedroom house with large garden. (I like the space).
- Have 3 children (all adult)
- Professionally successful but I suck at keeping up social conversation 🥲 (slight autism??)
About you
- under 30
- any religion (I'm agnostic)
- any ethnicity
- in the UK (or coming here soon)
Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:25 PM UTC · locked