I (23F) can’t get this argument I had with my boyfriend (21M) out of my head.

So we had a fight a and I don’t know what to think about it, and I feel like what happened is a redflag.

It went like this: my boyfriend was in a very awkward and funny position, so I wanted to take a picture of him. He noticed it and got angry, so he hit my hand with the corner of his phone. I got felt very hurt by this action, so he started apologizing and said that it was accidental and he only wanted to hit my phone (?).

He started trying to hug me, but I refused to hug him back. He got angry again, and tried to rip my phone out of my hand, and in the process he pushed me to the wall (so I hit my head). To which I reacted like “wtf are you doing again, you’re being so aggressive with me”.

He started saying that I’m overreacting, to this I did not reply and didn’t even look at him, which provably pissed him off a lot because he started saying that I’m a whiny c*nt, and said that “ we are over”, so he left our apartment (to go ti the bar with his friends) AND TOOK MY KEYS, so I couldn’t leave. 10 minutes later he called me and told me how sorry he is and that he loves me, and after he apologized he said this: “Shouldn’t you also say you’re sorry?”. This pissed me off so I just hung up the phone.

So now I’m here wondering what the hell just happened. I keep having these thoughts that maybe I really did do something wrong, and I keep going back and forth with what he has said about the situation, and how I felt in this situation. I’m going crazy. I don’t have anyone to talk to about this.

I don’t know if this was just a bad fight or something more concerning, please help me make sense of what happened?

I can’t trust my own judgement here