How can I tell if I’m virgin involuntarily or voluntarily

This might be a dumb question but I’ve gotten alot of DMs from people saying that I’m not celibate if I haven’t actually tried cold approaching women but like if I was attractive I wouldn’t have to?

I’ve never approached a woman because I’m in fear of rejection and a lot of people say I look fine, I never was told I was good looking except online but never in person. This is skewered because I’ve only done a partial face reveal on my profile so the odds point to that im ugly.

But, am I still involuntarily celibate if I never got hit on?