20 [M4F] #online #NJ sadist looking for masochist friend and eventually dynamic

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First off I just want to say older women are welcome the thought of controlling an older women is definitely a tempting one and second dynamics and relationships aren't perfect so dont expect to be in a constant state of arousal too many people on here go into a post expecting a perfect dom whos this all put together guiding hand 12 pack abs guy with no life problems I most certainly have my own life problems you can tell because the post says I live in Jersey and everything cost five bucks

What im looking for

Im looking for a friend with similar intrests to me to start a grounded friendship with a mutual intrest in extreme kinks such as abuse and general sex torture (AKA a masochist) with the intent of eventually starting a dynamic hooking up and hanging out in whatever order comes naturally

What i want from you

All I want from you is effort everything im about to say is exactly what I will be doing for you as well so id like it if you did the same like being the first to initiate a conversation asking questions about me and just getting to know me I cant tell you how many times ive had to lead a conversation because the other person just doesn't put in the effort to speak more than a 6 word sentence also id like you to try your best to start being more healthy if were going to be in a relationship than I think its important to try and always improve are selfs to be the ideal partner for eachother id like us to go to the gym together in the future as well anyway to accomplish this in the future

Some of my kinks

As I said im a sadist so anything abuse related is an absolute yes but things that also intrest me is full-body latex, permanent bondage, branding, piercing, clothing control, body modification, blood, stretching, exhibitionism, tattoos, just to be clear tho u dont have to like all of these this is just to give you a general idea of me

Limits scat diper play age regression

My hobbies

Im a pretty big nerd so anything gaming such as bord games card games TCG even war hammer i also own an xbox series S so if you want we can game other interests are animated series such as anime adult cartoons helluva boss hasbin hotel im big into music i love listening to just about everything except contry I even have some classical i do read but im not into novels I prefer graphic novels comics that sort of thing extroverted things I like is honestly just going places and trying new things as long as I have company and we stop at a dunkin for coffee ill try and accompany you anywhere and even engage in it

My preferences when it comes to women

This isint necessary but its a big plus if your any of these

Older women small breasts asian petite naturally lewd likes to show off goth/Alt has lots of tattoos

Like to show skin is a gamer or nerd

Lastly sexual attraction is an important part of any relationship so id like to swap pictures of eachother before we start anything to get that out of way

Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:32 PM UTC · locked

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