40 [M4F] #Indiana #Online #EST - Tender man seeking to share mutual care, kindness, passion, and pursue excitement and creativity in our ways of experiencing intimacy.

NSFW

To escape each day to a caring yet insatiable secret friend is what I’m hoping to discover. A fellow neglected soul who has been aching to let out and share all the creative yet insatiable desires within them after feeling indifference and blandness at home. Imagine having a man who truly can’t wait to message you, fantasizes about you constantly, and genuinely chases your happiness through friendship and lust.  Sharing the ups and downs of each day while being that safe space for everything from precious to naughty, sounds like an amazing way to navigate through life’s stresses.

Yes, I do seek an extremely freeing and unrestricted sexual connection when it comes to being able to express what flows through our minds, but I understand this type of comfort and vulnerability comes with an actual emotional connection. A sense of trust and safety to meld with desiring someone. In short, I hope to develop a caring friendship and safe place to escape to as we fill the voids of our daily lives together.

Ideally, or at least what I logically picture, is a stay-at-home mom or someone like me who also has great freedoms while at work to text, send and receive voice messages, and send and receive pictures / videos during the work day. With my responsibilities at home as a parent, which I’m sure others can relate to, there is very little consistent time for me to communicate while at home in the evenings and on weekends. I can message here and there, and I don’t disappear, but the bulk of our time experiencing each other would have to align with my availability of early morning to throughout the work day. 

I have started on a physical transformation and health journey after using food for a very long time to deal with my neglectful situation in terms of sex at home. I’m down weight wise about 20-25lbs, and I’m excited to keep improving myself each day. I share this personal fact about myself to show that I am both active with working out and eating better, but that I also understand the struggle of not having a Hollywood type body. I consider myself a handsome man with several handsome features, but I am athletically thick/husky. I’m not seeking a woman who has a perfect body. I’m far from it myself. I’m just hoping to find someone who is ready to be vulnerable in sharing themselves through pictures, videos, and voice messages along with the emotional sides. I hope me being athletic yet thick, tall at 6’ with a trimmed beard, and having a sensual yet soothing voice piques your interest.

I have a very tender and caring demeanor about me which is enjoyed at home; however, I’m wanting to be able to let out this wanting, insatiable sexual beast within me as well. If how I portray myself and my hopes intrigues you, please reach out and tell me a little about yourself.

Posted Apr 24, 2026, 8:34 PM UTC

10
Loading comments…