Hyperfixations around Dating

Not looking for advice, more just wanna know I’m not the only one who has to deal with this.

Does anyone else find it so hard to control their brain when it comes to early dating where you actually really like the person? Like just how much effort it takes to play it cool and be normal??

6 years of therapy/being single and I’m very much in control now but I still wish I could just rewire my brain so that the second I start liking someone for real I don’t have to beat the unhinged feral woman in my brain with a broom.