[F4M] Ethical-Non-Monogamy Roleplay.

Hey,

You’ve probably seen a fair few of my posts on here and I’m going to be the first one to admit that a lot of my posts have had a similar feel to it so I’ve gone for something a little different here. I know I’ll probably get a lot of questions about what Ethical-Non-Monogamy is so ill just answer that question now.

So what is Ethical-Non-Monogamy?

Ethical-Non-Monogamy or better known as ENM or Consensual non-monogamy is where either both or a singular person in a relationship has consent from their partners to have romantic and or sexual partners outside of the relationship.

I know I probably didn’t explain that the best but thats how id define/ describe ENM. I do want to add my own take on the ENM which ill get into that a little later on. I’ll just introduce myself a little first and introduce you to how I like to write.

So I like to think Im an experienced erotic story writer, Its been either three or four years since I started writing smut and I cant say Ive had too many complaints. I use first person along with current tense, discord would be my preferred platform to write on but that isn’t a deal breaker. 

Im not available 24/7 and I don’t expect any of my writing partners to be around 24/7 either. 

Lets just keep an open dialog when it comes to when we will be and when we wont be available. 

Now Ill break down the background of the prompt, maybe even pitch a few potential parings for our characters.

Background-

So I know what I’m asking for may have confused a lot of people so ill do my best to clear any confusion up. So Im not looking for anything that would be humiliating or degraded to my in role-play husband. Ill just happen to be romantically involved with two men. One being my husband and the other being you. So its more of a friendly, romantic and fun dynamic instead of the cliché smug bull dynamic. If that makes sense? If you’ve still got any questions feel free to ask and ill do my best to answer them. Below ill list a few parings and a background on how our characters will have met.

Paring 1: The Tinder Match 

Pretty cliché set up, met on tinder and you understood the ENM dynamic my husband and myself wanted to explore and we’ve been dating a couple of months.

Pairing 2: The One That Almost Got Away

Another cliché paring but mine and your character will have dated in college but come graduation we decided we wanted different things from live and parted ways respectfully. Only for us to meet by random chance in a local gym.

Paring 3: The Neighbour.

Myself and my husband had lived next door to you for a couple of years, the three of us got on well and you’d have us over for dinner and Vice Versa. One night when myself and you were a little tipsy we announced our romantic feelings towards one another.

Paring 4: My Husbands Friend:

This one may be a little to close for home for a real ENM relationship but thats the beauty with roleplaying ey? I didn’t know how it happened or even why it happened but I fell for my husbands friend and much to my surprise my husband knew I wanted to explore ENM and also knew I had a lot of love to give and his friend shouldn’t be denied that just because I’m married to him. 

Paring 5: The Divorce Dad Who’s Down On His Luck.

Again another cliche idea but I think even the older men deserve another chance at love, I haven’t really thought this paring through but id love to hear any input you may have for this parings or any other the other parings or please feel free to bring your own. 

**Now ill give you a potential starter using Paring 4.**

Here I was getting ready to go on another date with my husbands best friend \[YOUR NAME HERE\]. I never expected or even thought id fall for a friend of my husbands but here I was three months into a Ethical-Non Monogamous relationship. It had been an amazing time. It hadn’t just helped me feel more confident but I felt like my marriage with Ryan has got a lot stronger and made me appreciate him all the more. Tonights date was a little different in fact I don’t know if was even a date because id be spending the weekend at \[Your names place here\] Id always come home after our dates but since Ryan was going away on business I didn’t want to be left on my own all weekend so you suggested I stay with you. I packed a bag packing some clothes both going out clothes and clothes to chill in at your place. 

I didn’t know what to expect but soon Ryan would be dropping me off at your place for not only a romantic weekend but a weekend full of fun,sex and smutty behaviour all while having the comforting knowledge that my husband and your best friend is absolutely okay with our relationship.

**End Of Backstory.**

Right so Ive talked way more than I needed. We don’t need to follow the starter above I’m more than willing to brainstorm parings and starters. 

Thanks for reading,

Bluebird x