Deep desire to break up

I met this guy on Instagram. Same culture same food ect. He’s Nigerian by the way and a politicians son from back home. I knew his smoked but as time went by I started getting uncomfortable. He would come to my house high. Either he was smoking weed, vape or hookah. He liked going out to clubs and lounges. I’m a quiet and reserved person and I also like to dress modestly. My last straw was when I told him I wanted to get my life right with God and abstain from all things and he told me to smoke weed on the day of his birthday so I broke it off the same day. I felt like there was so much compromising of morals. Having a disagreement of being born again, him having the idea of opening a strip club and when I confronted about it he said he thought about it but doesn’t mean he will do it.

Many people will say they are Christian but don’t follow God. This is what hit the hardest. But I am the bad person for breaking up with him on his day when I told you I had a boundary. He then proceeds to say that I never talked to him about it when I told him how I felt. I don’t want to spend my life cautioning someone on what is right or wrong.