Do you ever get over someone you love

I recently had a traumatic experience with someone i so deeply love, it was my first ever love and lasted for 3 years. now they have ghosted me after being emotionally abusive and avoidant.

And now im wondering, is it possible to get over someone u truly loved and thought u would spend ur life with? Is it possible to feel this level of love again with someone else?

Do you have a similar experience? If so how long did it take you to get over them and how?