41 [M4f] #Chicago - Let's grab a drink, no expectations

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After spending months traveling for work, and with the prospect of many more months to go, I've gotten out of the habit of having a nice date. I've been lacking in enjoyable one-on-one social interaction. I'm not talking about anything involved like multi-course dinners, scavenger hunts, or whatever kids do these days; I just want to meet up for coffee/hot chocolate or drinks (or one after the other) with a woman who is probably neurospicy and decided to show up for a good time, with no expectations beyond that.

I'm **not** looking for a hookup - I mean, I wouldn't complain if it happened, but my focus right now is on having good social interaction, not fun below the waist.

Here's the super-short recap for anyone who hasn't clicked on my profile and read my usual posts: I'm in an open marriage, my wife and I can and do meet up with others when we're not in the same city together. I'm in the middle of spending months stuck all alone in a cabin just outside the Wisconsin Dells in order to work shifts at a local clinic, and this is the first stretch of days that I have back in Sweet Home, Chicago\* where the wife is out of town, leaving me to my own devices.

Please message me and save me from watching endless youtube videos or playing games on my computer - we both know that we could be having a lot more fun together. Prove you read this far by mentioning what your first drink order would be.

\*Yes, I know that song isn't actually about this Chicago - bonus points if you know where it is about without resorting to a search bar

Posted Apr 28, 2026, 7:02 PM UTC · locked

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