22 [M4F] #UK/Anywhere - inexperienced guy looking for kinky submissive childfree life partner aged 18-22 for a D/s relationship

Hey, this post is likely going to be quite long and maybe a bit of a ramble so apologise in advance for that!, please make sure if you decide to reach out that you’ve read all of it, if you’re interested then please send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself.

A bit about Me:

I'm 22 and live just outside of London in the UK.

I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe.

I'm 5'10 or 178 cm.

Right now I work in a pub and I’ve been there for a few months, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save some money. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now however it will soon be because my goal is to be ready to start seriously job searching for my first career job by the end of the year at the latest, I’m under no illusion though that it’ll be quick or easy as the job market right now is frankly awful. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.

I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well around the right people. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.

I'm financially literate and responsible with money, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.

I'm an atheist.

I like to travel. I haven't done too much yet, but I've been to seven countries, mostly in Europe. I've also been to the US. In the future I want to do lots more travelling all over the world. At the end of the year I do hope to go backpacking around Asia for a few months, if it’s feasible I’d love for you to join me on that.

My long term goal is to live in a big city in the UK like London, Manchester, Edinburgh etc. I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech.

I'm kinky. I have a very high sex drive and am definitely sexually dominant. My experience is quite limited like admittedly I am a virgin but I do have some experience. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, and rimming (both giving and receiving), I like a bit of spanking too. Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. Ideally I'd like to wait until ive had a vasectomy to start having proper sex, I'm not really into ropes or anything like that, and I'm certainly not into verbally degrading anyone or anything that would be considered "mean" like face slapping or anything. I’m looking for a D/s style relationship, not a very strict one or a high protocol one with a lot of rituals (although there will be some don’t get me wrong) but just more a dynamic where you can trust me to take the lead and guide the relationship, with some input from you as well.

I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.

I would say I’m quite nerdy still although I dont play video games much anymore however I’m trying to rediscover the love for them that I once had, I sold my PS5 about a year ago which I do regret now however I recently found my old PS4 and since then I’ve been playing through Yakuza Kiwami 3 which i'm really enjoying and I’ll probably do the whole series because I absolutely adore the yakuza games in general, definitely my favourite game series. I also used to watch a shit ton of horror movies when I was a kid and absolutely loved them, I could easily watch them without being scared or even flinching at jump scares but for some reason I find them terrifying now! 

I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them. 

What I'm Looking For:

You're 18-22 years old and live in the UK or Anywhere else in the world (I’m more than happy to do long distance and visit each other) although if you’re not in the UK then you would need to be willing to eventually relocate here.

You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement.

You want to travel the world with me in the future.

I'm open to people of any body type.

You are not very family oriented.

You are not religious.

You don't smoke or take drugs.

You have a very high sex drive, just like me, are submissive and into the same kinks and relationship dynamic as me. I'm more than happy to guide you on the things I have experience with if you need and, of course, to explore new things together. 

Ideally, you're also introverted like me.

If you have some nerdy interests that’s definitely a plus.

If you’re neurodivergent as well that’s something we could connect on but it doesn’t matter at all if you’re not.

Like me, you're want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.

You have a calm personality and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.

You are also a very affectionate person.

You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on building wealth and retiring early together.