Is she toxic?

Women get an attitude at the wrong times. And then realize they were wrong about something because you threw the logic spanner in her thought engine . And then throw out the "im on my cycle" card looking for some pity. And then give you some silent treatment so you can get some point they're making. Hoping you get it. Is this a toxic behavior or am I just not understanding her and should just automatically read her mind like what good boyfriends do? Lol