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I found this video back in summer of 2023.Before I even stepped foot in the kpop community but I was in a similar situation to where I’ve had a whole bunch of unnecessary lies spread about me to the point where I couldn’t deal with it anymore.I decided to get help before I crashed out .Mind you ,in 2021 I was being followed by certain people because of lies but that’s another story for another time.Even though I actually knew the “celebrity” at the time,he  lied about how he didn’t know me out of spite.Back to the subject,she covers how she ended up having an aromantic delusion about a celebrity to where she basically went delirious.Now with wiretapping I’m a be honest ,two things could be true at the same time especially after the “E “ file situation and the whole “Diddybop” situation.The whole point is,if someone didn’t tell you physically to your face that they like you,it didn’t happen.No,they don’t like you.No,you are not a y/n.Now ,when it comes to kpop,the whole point of parasocialism is for you to feel “close” to the artists so you can buy things and boost the sales.I’m not saying don’t buy it,I’m just saying don’t let your head sit on cloud 9.I love NBA Youngboy as an artist but do I want to be with him? No. Do I want to pop up at his house for a relationship? No. Do I see Justin Bieber as attractive? Yes. Do I want to pop up at his house? No. He’s a nice looking guy but I don’t have an attraction to him. Also,you have to remember that kpop artists are human too,at the same time,everything these artists do is only a “cover” of their actual lives.You don’t know these people.I may have my opinions but idc if these people worship a slice of cheese.These are my opinions.

How parasocialism ruins everyone even the artists TW(mental health and trauma)