My (28M) fiancé (24F) wants to have sex biweekly. I want to break up

Hi everyone,

My fiancé says it’s too much to have sex every week. She wants it to be every other week like a pay cheque (which makes it sound like some form of chore or homework). When I say I don’t want that, she says that I’m demanding too much by wanting it more than that much. she prefers physical affection with no sexual act (kissing, cuddling).

I am a man so obviously I have needs and I would like my fiancé to be on the same wavelength as me. She works a lot and so do I. I work long hours and I look forward to spending time with her when I’m home but I want to have sex with her and not just cuddle everyday.

I want to break it off just because of this. She’s perfect in every other way, I have nothing that leaves me questioning if she’s the one for me.

How can I approach this without having a disastrous conversation?

Posted Apr 28, 2026, 7:08 PM UTC

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