I like a girl from another country and we might meet what should I expect

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So I need some honest advice lol

I’m from India and I’ve been talking to this girl from the Philippines online. We get along really well and we’re thinking of meeting there and like dating in real life to see how it goes.

Now my brain is jumping way ahead and I’m like… what if this actually works long term 😅 like marriage and all that. I don’t even know how that would work with different countries, family, living situation etc.

I’m not even sure what I want yet tbh, I just like her and want to meet. But at the same time I don’t want to be stupid or ignore future complications.

Has anyone here been in a similar situation with international dating? What should I realistically expect and what are the biggest red flags or things I should think about before meeting?

Be brutally honest pls 🙏

Posted Apr 28, 2026, 7:08 PM UTC

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