21F, I don't want to lose this precious guy. What would you suggest me in this situation?

I’m 21 (F) and he’s 21 (M). We’ve been in a long-distance relationship for 3 years and have met several times. I come from a broken family, and he hasn’t experienced that kind of trauma.

There were times when I felt like he didn’t give me enough time or effort—simple things like playing games together, calling, or watching movies online. This led to several arguments. Sometimes I felt so hurt that I considered breaking up—not because I wanted to, but because of how things made me feel.

Recently, my mother got married for the third time. He knew about this and would often say it might create problems or affect acceptance, especially since we come from an Asian family background. I told him I couldn’t tolerate anyone speaking negatively about my parents, and that led to another heated argument.

For over a week, he blocked me everywhere, saying our mindsets are different and we can’t continue. Yesterday, after I kept asking him to unblock me, he said that he feels like God has removed me from his heart and that he feels very distant from me now.

He also said:

“I don’t want to be your spouse. I don’t feel or see any good in it. Wallah, when I did want it, I was honest—and I’m still being honest now. I don’t want to fake my feelings and hurt you more.

The differences between us do exist. I know, with Allah as my witness, that you’re willing to resolve everything just because you love me—but I don’t want to force my perspective on you or on us.

I sought guidance from Allah for a long time, and instead of bringing me closer to you, it led me further away. I’ve accepted that.

You deserve the best—Wallah, you truly do. You deserve someone better than me. What I did, what I said, and even what I’m doing now may not be right.

Everyone has the right to choose their spouse. I don’t want you to wait for me—if I’m late or I don’t come back, that wouldn’t be fair. What is written in destiny will happen. I won’t wait either; I’ll trust in Allah. The time we spent together was good.”

Me as a 21F, there is no flaw in him. Hes gentle precious patient and always treated me with love. I really want to wait, and lead everything in a prosperous manner. But i don't understand will the situation subside maybe in months?