I (28M) just realised that women actually have a lot to talk about, but only when they are interested in you.

There is this friend who I met online a few years ago. Initially, I was the one who used to message her and try to talk to her, but she would usually give half assed replies. Eventually, the conversation died and we stopped talking.

Cut to a few weeks ago, I posted a pic of myself at the end of a half marathon. I have gotten lean and look younger than before. She commented on my pic expressing how I look like I was in my early 20s. Me being the sakth launda just said a thank you and tried to end the conversation.

But she wouldn't stop. She kept dragging the conversation using small talks but eventually gave up. Again after some days she messaged me and started talking about random stuff, things that I have no interest in whatsoever anymore.

Now I have no idea why she's so into talking to me after a gap of over a year. But it did make me realise that she must always have had something to keep the conversation going, but she never did and always gave cold replies.

Well, it's my turn now since I'm honestly done chasing.