45 [M4F] #WickerPark - Busy by design, present when it matters

M4F | 6’1, 180, in shape (body pic in profile for now)

Recently out of a long relationship, dusting off my social skills a bit.

I’m a finance/IT professional and active single dad of several kids. Most of my life involves coaching sidelines, carpools, and chaos I wouldn’t trade for anything. It keeps me grounded and it keeps me busy. What’s left over I protect carefully but hopefully involves you!

Wide range of interests, genuinely high emotional intelligence (I mean that in the least douchey way possible). I’m the kind of person who can go deep on ideas, laugh at the absurd, and actually listen. Dry, sarcastic, curious. I’ll send you a Ronan Farrow piece at midnight and want to hear what you think.

I cook, I know good restaurants, I know how to make a Sunday feel like something. I’ll bike the 606 with you and I promise I won’t wear one of those silly biking outfits.

I’m very chill and relaxed. No games, no ambiguity, I’m good at making someone feel like a priority.

As for who I’m looking for, I lead with chemistry. If you’re interesting, confident, and find any of this appealing, I’d love to hear from you. Age, background, whatever. Less concerned with the checklist than the spark. Not just looking for a hookup, but feel free to use me if you are.

Send me a chat if any of this resonates. I promise I’m worth the conversation.