Should I leave him?

I(19F)have been dating my partner(20M)since January of this year. For some context, he approached me on Instagram and we instantly hit it off. However, at the start of March I broke things off again because I was unsure of how he felt concerning our relationship. He never asked me on a date or anything, and our relationship revolved around us going to one another’s place. When I ended things with him it only lasted about 3 weeks until he reached out to me.

However, when he reached out to me he was telling me that I was doing what his ex did, play for play. He also proceeded to tell me that what I did was unfair, even though I felt as though it was only necessary for things to end because nothing was progressing! He made me feel like the whole situation was my fault, and I reluctantly accepted him back into my life.

Ever since the end of march we have beeb seeing each other consistently, but things have not changed. He has not asked me to be his girlfriend, never been asked on a date, haven’t even really gone out without each other. Even though he always talks about doing stuff together it never happens.

Thing is, I really do like him, but I am still unsure if he takes me seriously at all. I feel like the whole thing is repeating itself, even after the first time I told him exactly what I was upset about, and he still continues to do this. This whole situation has made me extremely self conscious and upset because I deep down just want to be appreciated.

Should I bring it up to him again and hopefully things will change? Or should I just end it, because if he really took things seriously our relationship wouldn’t only exist indoors. Im very conflicted but I don’t want to have to ask someone to treat me good.

Posted Apr 28, 2026, 7:10 PM UTC

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