IT seriously bothers me that I can't get into this game.

I've tried getting into this game but I just can't. I've played around 20 hours and don't see the appeal. It looks super fun to play, but I seriously can't have fun with it. It's incredibly complex to get into and the combat is just super simplistic and boring. What do I do. Someone please help. Ignoring all comments saying it just "isn't for me."