How to avoid getting settled (would love opinion of south asian)

Well I am a young south asian guy who is gonna look for marriage soon the thing that is bothering me is

I am not conventionally attractive and

I am only 5ft7 ( I do have a good physique but thats it)

In south asia lot of people force their daughter to marry and they give most priority to money and a lot of priority to someone who is working in another country

So I Would like to know from people how to avoid getting settled what can I do to make sure they arent settling for me and are genuinely attracted to me cause I feel like attraction is important for marriage and knowing my wife aint attracted to me and married me cause I was good on papers will make me feel bad

And the fact that some of the girls people showed to me are very attractive like very beatiful and I dont know if they would be even interested in me

Sorry for my bad english