Allo spec

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I hate seeing phrase " aces can have sex" Surely they can, but context where it used strange ,that phrase is for hindering "gold star" aces so ppl who had relationships wouldn't be shamed for

Similar to lesbian/gay, but rather it used, to comfort allos so they try to date aces, so allos have more fetishes or non aces be able to use the label

"Aces so freaky" "aces write best smut" "aces have best sex" "aces the most kinky" basically conforming to allos, and not acephobic at all/s

"Lesbians/gay have best sex with opposite gender" now it's homophobic

I see no reason why asexuality has to be a spectrum, demi/gray has sexual attraction and why it's not allo spec , lesbian/gay are not specs but bi are , while allo not?

Making all labels that have sexual attraction into allo spec would make more sense, allos can have different sexual attraction.

"Demis have sexual attraction like asexual before they get it"

If allo has sex are they asexual for idk next sex or whatever?

Dumping all labels into asexuality erases asexuality. If you ask for ace romance on reddit, it is demi 60%-70% of the time. I guess the trope is " I can change you." And it happens,

I hope there's no "political aces"

Surely erases sensuality and romantic love without sex, I mean, it is easier to write aces for allos like add " I will have sex with person you love" apparently it's ace representation? Yay...

It's so strange to see lesbian dating women, like we could change lesbian term " LITTLE to no attraction to men" so lesbian who date men and enjoy being with romanticaly or sexualy would be included/s

Similar to aromantic, if you demi aromantic you are in romantic spec , alloace, so aro would have full rep,