26 [M4F] #California/Online - Dom in Search of Sub
Hello Reddit!
I am in search of a play partner to take under my wing as a Sub. I primarily enjoy being in a Dominant role and at this time I am looking for a Dom/Sub Dynamic that can be in person or online. We will have lots of fun if you also believe in mutual respect, consent, communication, and patience.
About me:
SFW:
I am a 26, Latino Male, from California, USA (PST). I am 5’11, have dark brown hair and eyes, tan complexion, and somewhere between fit and dad bod. I recently started going to the gym after recovering from a sport injury. I enjoy being in the outdoors (hiking, going to the beach, and camping), running, traveling, video games, listening to music, and cooking. I speak English, Spanish, some Portuguese and Italian too. Also my hidden talent is dancing!
NSFW:
I have been in the BDSM life for about 8+ years now and have experienced both irl and online dynamics. In my time exploring, I have learned and practiced various light and heavy kinks. Among my top kinks include obedience training through a system of tasks with rewards and punishments, giving masturbation instructions, edging and teasing, orgasm control/denial, breath play, nipple play, clit play, biting/scratching/pinching/ spanking, remote control toys, sexting/phone sex, bondage and shibari, body writing, position training, exhibitionism and voyeurism, public play, group play, using ice and candle wax, pet play, ddlg, tpe, cnc, and many more. I also use the Obedience and Lovense apps as part of my training regiment but they are not necessary.
My limits are: blood, scat, bodily fluids, incest and age play, and anything illegal
About you:
I don’t have any physical preferences in a partner though physical attraction is important. I am looking for someone who I can have a kinky friendship with and can grow to be a relationship if we work out. I also know that some partners are looking for non-committal dynamics and I would be okay with casual play as long as that is established up front. I am open to anyone of any experience level so if you are new and want some guidance or more of a veteran and want to have fun, feel free to reach out!
Bonus points if you are a gamer, play sports, are witty and funny, have an accent, can teach me new languages, or own toys, lingerie or heels.
If you read this far, provide a brief introduction and explain what caught your eye about my post. I will only respond if your message has a rose emoji.
-A
Posted Apr 29, 2026, 6:56 AM UTC · locked