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Honest question for mommy doms

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Hi hi everyone 😊 hope you all are doing good these days! ✨

I wanted to ask an honest question and please feel free to be honest, no sugar coating :))

Do mommy doms or dom women in general like or tend to like petite guys? :0 I mean, let me phrase this question: I know as a fact that vanilla women are not into petite guys or guys that are smaller than them, because they find it unattractive and they feel ā€œless feminineā€ if they’re bigger than their partner and stuff like that 😌 but when it comes to mommy doms, is that also the case?

I haven’t had the opportunity to share or talk to many mommy doms or fem doms in general and so far I’ve noticed mixed preferences, not like a ā€œpatternā€ which happens to be the case for most vanilla women.

I ask because I feel at times that even though they are mommy doms, they expect their sub / boy to be like super masculine or like ā€œmacho manā€ but sub, if that makes sense?

I know that the chances of me meeting someone or succeed in dating are pretty narrowed given my ā€œdisadvantageā€ (not saying this to victimize myself at all, but as a matter of fact) given the fact that I’m 159cm (or 5’2) and 49kg (108 lbs) and on top of that, I just don’t fit the ā€œmacho manā€ guy at all, like I don’t try to ā€œovercompensateā€ by idk, going to the gym, or wear ā€œsuper manlyā€ clothes that are boring as hell, but instead I just wear stuff that are more cutesy (I’m not a fem boy) like knitted sweaters with colors, and baggy jeans that have nicer cuts (from the girls section because men jeans are too big for me and also they have no taste to make clothes for men and most of them are super heteronormative), so if you put all that together I have the feeling that I simply don’t fit any mold of ā€œtypeā€, neither the vanilla women type, nor the fem dom ones 😌

So I wanted to ask if you’d like to chip in your thoughts about this or simply express what are your preferences and perhaps elaborate briefly about it, so I can understand a bit more 😊 I’m genuinely curious about that!

Thankies you for taking the time to so! šŸ’œāœØ

Posted Apr 29, 2026, 7:06 AM UTC

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