Honest question for mommy doms
Hi hi everyone š hope you all are doing good these days! āØ
I wanted to ask an honest question and please feel free to be honest, no sugar coating :))
Do mommy doms or dom women in general like or tend to like petite guys? :0 I mean, let me phrase this question: I know as a fact that vanilla women are not into petite guys or guys that are smaller than them, because they find it unattractive and they feel āless feminineā if theyāre bigger than their partner and stuff like that š but when it comes to mommy doms, is that also the case?
I havenāt had the opportunity to share or talk to many mommy doms or fem doms in general and so far Iāve noticed mixed preferences, not like a āpatternā which happens to be the case for most vanilla women.
I ask because I feel at times that even though they are mommy doms, they expect their sub / boy to be like super masculine or like āmacho manā but sub, if that makes sense?
I know that the chances of me meeting someone or succeed in dating are pretty narrowed given my ādisadvantageā (not saying this to victimize myself at all, but as a matter of fact) given the fact that Iām 159cm (or 5ā2) and 49kg (108 lbs) and on top of that, I just donāt fit the āmacho manā guy at all, like I donāt try to āovercompensateā by idk, going to the gym, or wear āsuper manlyā clothes that are boring as hell, but instead I just wear stuff that are more cutesy (Iām not a fem boy) like knitted sweaters with colors, and baggy jeans that have nicer cuts (from the girls section because men jeans are too big for me and also they have no taste to make clothes for men and most of them are super heteronormative), so if you put all that together I have the feeling that I simply donāt fit any mold of ātypeā, neither the vanilla women type, nor the fem dom ones š
So I wanted to ask if youād like to chip in your thoughts about this or simply express what are your preferences and perhaps elaborate briefly about it, so I can understand a bit more š Iām genuinely curious about that!
Thankies you for taking the time to so! šāØ
Posted Apr 29, 2026, 7:06 AM UTC