**If what I write below speaks to you, and you had a similar relationship with your parent(s), I would love to talk to you in detail about it all. No judgment, no shame, you won't shock or scare me off.**

One of the best relationships I had was with a woman who learned everything about sex from her parents, from kissing to anal. She was always so ashamed of her upbringing, so she kept it to herself or occasionally talked to a therapist. She didn't like seeing therapists because they would make her feel like what happened to her was the worst thing ever, even though to her it was some of the happiest memories and brought her a lot closer to her parents in ways nothing else could have.

Now, years after that relationship ended, I've been trying to find a woman like her. Which sucks, because it's not like I can put that on a dating profile or something.

Her stories were the most romantic that I had heard, and it was sad to me that she spent so many years feeling isolated because of it. The thing that traumatized her the most was not what happened to her with her parents, but the attitude of society around it. Like she was expected to be a miserable victim when in reality she was happy and "normal" outside of being a little hypersexual.

I feel like an outlier here because I'm not interested in abusing or degrading women. I'd prefer to be a nurturing paternal figure you can find safety and comfort in, so I'm an oddity.

[M4A] Your parent(s) were your first everything, and you wish you could go back and relive all your earliest memories with them. I can help. Men, women, trans, all welcome to remember. (READ BELOW)