He played me for sex

Hey I'm 23F and my ex was 26M.

We both live in the city X. And I'm a college student there soon to graduate this year. I was using bumble and had a premium version of Bumble. We met through that app and I had no idea that he was a lieutenant in the army.

And I was a college student and in our country being a lieutenant is a big deal. I really respect the men in the uniform who serve our nation.

But there was a fear in me that he might think I'm with him for his rank only and I'm a uniform digger which clearly I was not .

Things were going well ,We were meeting on the regular basis . And in 15 days of our relationship we met 4 times.

But then his course date came and he went for his infantry course in city Y .so we were in long distance from 6 months.

Now let me spill the tea for you

On our first day we were sitting in his car and he asked to close my eyes I closed my eyes and he kissed me with any consent but as I liked him , I didn't make an issue out of it. He promised me to marry him and before going for his course he wanted to do sex with me. So I called him at my place because I was not comfortable going into a hotel room for having sex .

On the next he ghosted and when I asked him to talk he made excuses that he had a lot of work.

Now when he is in city Y he completely neglects me didn't receive my calls. And made me feel very ignored.

He had time to call at his home and going out with his seniors. He recently attended a concert also.

But whenever I call him he doesn't receive my call or give me an excuse that he is busy and will call me later.

So do you think he made fake promises for sleeping with me or his work life was really fucked up!!