Will it be difficult or impossible for me [33F] single mom to find what I am looking for?

Be honest

I am divorced, one kid, average looking but really would love to meet a sweet, loyal and hardworking man . My divorce was because he (37 M ) was always nitpicking and unhappy with everything I did. I didn't cook enough for him, clean enough for him. The worst was that he gave me an ultimatum "have another baby or I will leave you" 😳

Anyways, that's over but I am scared of ending up with a cheater, crazy person, selfish person, or person who isn't generous and hardworking .

I really want someone kind, believes in bodily autonomy, there when I am sick, comes with me to events, is open with his phone and shares phone password as I would with him, is romantic and overall a thoughtful caring person.

I also don't want someone on drugs, is afraid of

commitment, parties left and right.. etc

Is that hard to find these days? I haven't dated in years!!