Help!!!

My sand boa hasn't eaten since the 13th and when she did eat it was a live pinky. I bought her and she hasn't eaten anything for me. If I have to feed her live then I'll probably rehome her so if ANYONE has advice, hell even force feeding her a frozen then I'll do it. Seriously though I need help. And how are we keeping pinkies warm while trying to feed? I either over heat it and it falls apart or it's warm enough for maybe 2 minutes then cold.