i feel crazy in san diego…

don’t get me wrong the nature is stunning (im obsessed with palm trees) and i absolutely love the ocean. I love living in a bigger city and having lots of restaurant and food options. I don’t know tho I’m black and I just feel like the vibe is off with the people here. There are times I feel unwelcome here and everyone talks about how the people here are so friendly but I find people here to be cold and reserved towards strangers. Am I trippin? Idk I feel like I belong on the east coast but i’m here for the foreseeable future because of my partner…could the grass be greener here? are there places i’m not looking where cool 20 something’s hang out or should I give up until we can move? I’m from a predominantly white area so this is nothing i’m not used to I just think people here are much more unfriendly then I’m used to.