Is it bad I don’t want a babyshower?

I’m a ftm and I’ve been so excited about being pregnant after trying for almost 10yrs but it’s been a little disheartening to see how little people actually check up or visit. I understand that everyone has their own lives and has their own things going on but it’s not going above and beyond to just send a text when you are chronically online lol..

I’ve contemplated on having a babyshower because I don’t want to go thru the stress of putting together an event for people to come to when no one really ever checks up or anything on me. I don’t really know how feel about it, if it’s wrong & I’m just being overly sensitive..