Worried I have fetishizer vibes?

I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately and I’m feeling a little uneasy about how I come across in queer spaces. Like, I don’t want to accidentally give off fetishizer vibes - I’m a feminine 23F with soft curves, full lips and hips that I’ve been told look good in dresses. I don’t want anyone to feel like I’m reducing them to fetish objects or anything, but I also don’t wanna be so worried about how I’m perceived that I don’t even know how to exist around trans guys anymore. I guess I’m just trying to figure out where the line is between genuine connection and... well, not. Does that make sense, or is this just something I’m overthinking?