24 [m4f] cali - is it normal to have a cheating kink?

every relationship i've been in i've had such a strong urge to cheat but i've never gone further than just flirting online. idk why but the idea of cheating is just really hot to me. doesnt matter if its me doing it or someone im hooking up with is cheating on their partner. as long as me or the other person are cheating its just so hot