Dead bedroom success story

I (56m) just want to offer some hope. My wife (Donna, 54f) and I have had many challenges in the bedroom the last 15 years, but through therapy and conversation and hard work - and willingness on both sides - I feel breakthroughs are possible.

In Sunday afternoon, she pulled me into the bedroom and started to initiate. I had a sinking feeling - not because it wasn’t welcome, but because I had “taken care” of myself that morning, assuming nothing would happen. I told her that I probably wouldn’t be ready for that reason.

She was persistent. She started to work on me with both hands and her mouth and eventually I started to rise to the occasion. She pulled me into the bathroom (our 16 year old was out and about) and continued to give me very persistent oral in front of the mirror, and then she sat me on the floor, positioned herself in front of the full length mirror and rode me reverse cowgirl watching herself.

It was kind of impersonal but welcome. I gave her an orgasm by hand as she watched herself, and then she rode me to completion.

This would never have happened before our communication. Sometimes it’s worth it.