I don’t like kissing men

So the idea of sex with men is appealing to me, and yes this means I might actually be gay. But why do I not feel the attraction to men, like wanting to cuddle, kiss like I want to do with women. No offense but it feels kinda disgusting. Is there something wrong with me? Does it mean I’m not gay? I read that you HAVE to feel that attraction to men to even be considered queer. I don’t have that. I just am when horny and want to do stuff.