Sometimes i feel like it's been more difficult since I've worked on myself

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I worked on myself for years lost a lot of weight, improved my mental health, eat healthier be more physical, cut out toxic people friends and family from my life got my foot in the door for a career

But I have yet to meet anyone platonic or romantic people at work seem friendly I've invited them to hang out play some pool or catch a movie but they tell me they are busy or cant afford to..

Ive tried meeting people romantically chat with them flirt a bit, set up a date only to get canceled on last minute, I try to set up something again but same thing happens..

Irs been happening for so long I've become distant i have maybe 2 friends since childhood I see every few months but that's about it