My type is too specific and I hate it

I’m really struggling because I have such a specific type

Ever since I had my first crush as a teen, I’ve absolutely loved men who have long hair. Seeing guys with long hair always fascinated me. Who have quite a feminine edge but masculine energy.

My first boyfriend at 25, had long hair. It wasn’t the only thing I liked about him but oh my god I desired him. Then the next guy I dated after him also had long hair, I had no problems finding them attractive

Long haired men are hard to find and I appreciate it isn’t all about looks, personality is key. Over the last few years I’ve tried to date all sorts of people but the desire is just missing. I struggle to see guys in a sexual way.

I realise I like men with long hair too much and my type is so specific I feel I am going to be single forever. I’m upset about it. I can’t control what I like but trying to date other men just isn’t working for me

Am I broken? Sometimes I worry I am asexual as it’s been so long since meeting someone I am attracted to

Posted May 1, 2026, 11:25 AM UTC

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