29 [M4F] #London - Looking for a gentle CFNM (clothed female naked male) based unequal friendship!
Hey all,
I’m a 29 year old guy based in London, looking for a fun, easygoing, yet deliberately unequal (for me) IRL friendship based on a CFNM dynamic.
CFNM has been one of my biggest interests for a long time now, and I’ve been building up the courage for a while to start my search for a kinky, yet mostly platonic friendship with a fun woman based on CFNM. For me, it’s all about the power exchange that comes from knowing that there’s a person who gets to see every single part of me, with no restrictions at all, whilst I’m unable to see any part of her at all!
I guess leading from this, a big part of this for me is a hidden unequal base, where we’re friendly and build up a close bond with each other (and otherwise equal in public), but with this big inequality hanging over us, always! I’d love to be your supportive friend who you can talk to about anything and everything, which is why it’s so important that we vibe with each other well as part of this dynamic.
If of interest, I also love the idea of casually involving chastity (for me) as part of this. I already wear a cage here and there, but haven’t been able to get into it properly, so it would be fun if you have an interest in platonic keyholding too. I also really am into the idea of bondage / restraint too, so it would be fun to explore those with someone too. But I should stress that if this isn’t for you, we absolutely don’t need to include it at all!
Overall, I want this to feel free and natural. We could be hanging out, talking, doing normal everyday things, and the dynamic is just quietly there, with no pressure, expectations or any other funny business! This dynamic would suit anyone generally, but particularly would suit a person who likes subtle inequalities too. You don’t need to be experienced in this world, we can all learn together!
In terms of SFW me, I am a loyal guy who loves catching up with friends, watching a movie, or playing with my cat. I also love things like DIY and having a deep conversation too.
Kinks if of interest are: CFNM, chastity, handcuffs, playful dynamic, bondage, gentle domme friendships and more.
Posted May 1, 2026, 11:29 AM UTC · locked