Question for experienced HWs, Have you ever felt like your husband?

Me and My wife have been in the LS for a few months now and this question came to my mind, do experience hotwives, who have been with many bulls, felt like their husband at some point in time, as in, the way your husband allows you to sleep with other men, Do you ever felt like asking your husband to sleep with other women as a sign of respect or payback? Have some of you already asked your husband and did he turn down the offer or accept it?