was denied from a female destiny group for being lgbt and then the d2 subreddit banned me for posting about it

title says it all. im a woman and am apprehensive about playing with men since many are rude when i join vc. tried joining a ladies of destiny group, but because my profile lists they/he pronouns (am a butch lesbian) they denied me membership. said i don't qualify as "femme." this is my last shot at finding some cool people to play with.

then i posted about this in another destiny subreddit and they banned me for "witch hunting" bro what 😭

i seriously never thought i'd need to debate someone about my damn pronouns its not that deep i just wanna learn some raids and make friends yall