44 [M4F] #North Carolina. Everywhere you are is everywhere you’ve been…

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Just lost to the beat
Punching through your skin
You don't know what to do
But still you want to crawl
All through the broken glass
That's everywhere you are…
🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶 🎶

-Married, not looking to change that.

I’m creative in a visual artistic way, smarter than the average bear, cuter than a jackass eating cactus. 6’, 195lbs, height/weight proportional with a full head of hair and trimmed facial hair.

I enjoy all kinds of music. My Spotify playlist includes a variety of genres. If I like it, I’ll listen to it, sometimes on repeat depending on how I’m feeling. I’m on a quest to build my liked songs list to over 1000. Currently in the 900’s range . Random podcasts are my go to for longer drives.

Creating in a general sense is my form of meditation. I’m currently working on a few projects with several on deck.

I work in the medical field in various clinical setting roles. ☢️. This was a career change after 17 years in the printing and graphics industry and turning wrenches on tractor trailers. Best decision I’ve ever made in regard to my career.

I’m always interested in learning new things, finding new to me music, and meeting interesting people. The human experience is unique to each of us. What’s your story?

I have a pretty dry and somewhat dark sense of humor, so if you think I’m joking, I probably am.

Ultimately I’m looking for a friends with benefits situation. Emphasis on the friends part first, progressing to the benefits part. Mental attraction is as important as physical attraction. I’m hoping to find a (singular) partner to mutually fulfill missing physical intimacy through exploring wants, needs and desires.

My preferred age range is somewhere between early/mid 30’s to early 50’s. Age is not super important if the connection and mutual attraction are there. Short and petite to average/tall height/weight proportionate. Confidence is sexy. Please be open minded, I can be a lot.

I live east of I95 in NC. I would like to meet someone in that general area to roughly the RDU area give or take. Ideal, but not a dealbreaker. VA and SC are not out of the realm of possibility. Hopeful to eventually meet in person if the stars align. Chatting on Reddit is fine to start (excuse any delay in responding, notifications are terrible here), switching to TG once we get established. I’m not particularly interested in online only at the moment.

If this has sparked your curiosity and you’re interested in learning more, send me a low key favorite song, a random podcast suggestion, an obscure fact that lives rent free in your head, or a simple Hello, and let’s go from there.

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Posted May 1, 2026, 11:32 AM UTC

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