Main character syndrome

I could be way off base here but she’s giving off such main character vibes. Does anyone else think it’s somewhat not a coincidence that while her SIL is having her third baby this one has to “stay with her parents for a few days” and then change the entire moving plan of flying vs driving? Wouldn’t jacks parents need to help with SILs older kids ? Just seems like odd timing on Phoebe’s end.