37 M4F - Attractive, Ambitious, and Emotionally Available

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Hi there, I’m a generally happy, optimistic, active 37-year-old on the West Coast. I like to think I’m a catch (yes, even in real life) and I’m hoping you are too: attractive, successful, curious, and building a great life that still has room for a little extra spark beyond the usual responsibilities and obligations.

Sound like you? In classic Type A fashion, here’s a little about me and what I’m looking for:

Me:

  • Tall, fit, Caucasian, athletic, and conventionally attractive — dimples included
  • Type A white-collar exec who’s proud of his career and sweats the details, sometimes to an absurd degree
  • Into cooking, concerts, sports — especially the NBA and college football — and spending an irresponsible amount of money on DoorDash
  • Happiest somewhere with oysters, martinis, good lighting, and better conversation
  • Generally content with life, but looking for something that feels a little more alive
  • Emotionally available and very willing to make real effort for the right person
  • Food pics, selfies, and playlists are absolutely my love languages

You:

  • Funny, ambitious, emotionally intelligent, and conventionally attractive
  • Petite and/or athletic tends to be my type
  • Career-driven, probably white-collar, and proud of the life you’re building
  • Generally happy too — treating this as a fun escape, but not afraid of real connection
  • Bonus points for PST, dog lovers, big city dwellers, dive bar enthusiasts, and anyone equally comfortable at a country club brunch

Sound like your type? Say hi and share a recent meal, song, or accomplishment that you just can't stop thinking about

Posted May 1, 2026, 5:45 PM UTC

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