SIL finds fault in everything I say.

We were so great in the beginning but it feels like she takes everything I say as a challenge or something. She says her husband, my brother, cannot watch adult movies bc she doesn’t like it and she doesn’t want him looking at any other girls.

I giggle and say, me and my wife look at that stuff together and it’s a non issue for us but “I get it” and that every relationship has their own boundaries to figure out.

She then gets an attitude and starts acting like i wasn’t respecting her marriage bc im okay with that in MINE.

Seriously that’s just the smallest example I’ve got.